Anonymous said...
Just curious do you not understand the fiancée
Tue Sep 05, 06:03:51 AM PDT
Yes, thank you, Anonymous, for mentioning the fiancée. I know my viewpoint was slanted, probably because the gentleman was the one that was my client.
This couple was an example of how crazy many relationships are, especially in the age bracket of 28-36. I believe that all women these days are "hormonally challenged" (to be politically correct!) because of the stresses we are under, the artificial hormones in our food, water and air that confuse the (especially female) body, and the concept of "having it all," that feminism brought to the scene.
Even though I felt personally, unjustly attacked, my heart also hurt for the lady. I feel for her immediate need to blame someone that was outside the situation, the pain of her man’s betrayals of her, and what I know both of them will go through in breaking off the relationship.
Most of us are still deeply programmed by what I call 'romanticized idealism.' We believe that there is one 'soulmate' that should meet and fulfill all our needs. I believe we are pioneering a new vision in close partnerships, one that honors both the masculine and feminine gifts, in balance. Please consider coming to one of my events to learn more about these perspectives, and this task for these times: healing the ancient wounds of confusion and distress between men and women (or, for same-sex couples, between masculine and feminine energies). Thanks so much for your comment.
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More response to anonymous:
This is a really gray and murky area, that of emotional responsibility. I've heard those who work with human sexuality say that married men make up 95% of clientele. If it weren't for men who were unhappy in their relationships, many prostitutes would be out of business (this isn't what Jade does, mind you, but she does work with people on sexual issues).
Ultimately, it was the responsibility of the man to be honest and/or truthful with his partner, not Jade's responsibility to find out that he was engaged, and then turn him down as a client because of it. Part of her work entails getting a relationship/sexual history from the client, but I don't think she knew prior to him walking through the door.
It is a good idea, personally, to maintain integrity and not get involved with people who are in committed relationships (married or otherwise partnered). But when you are talking about professionally, well....
Perhaps, like the fiancee and her sister, you don't have a good understanding of the work of a sexual healer? And surely many of the people who need this work most are those who are in relationship?
Gray area indeed...
xo, Piffy
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